Fall Bucket List and October

At the beginning of Fall (which we started in October since September here is still pretty hot!), we sat down during one of our family meetings and put together our fall bucket list. “Jump in the cold ocean” was the twins’ idea and the pretty much put that down no matter what season it is. We ended up completing our list, except for paddleboarding and making scones (sadly!)

The biker gang: Maliyah, Allie, Amelia and Samantha, with Meredith, baby Corbin, and baby Eleanor tagging along.

We look forward to going up the mountain to Oak Glen every year for apple and raspberry picking, fresh apple cider, mini apple donuts and picking up yummy breads, jams and my favorite flavored vinegars from the country market. This time, Eleanor and I stayed behind while the girls and Jake crossed off their bucket list item.

Playing at Oak Glen after gorging themselves on donuts and hot apple cider:

Swinging outside of someone’s house in our neighborhood.

Checking out a new park in Esencia.

Putting up Halloween decorations and waving to the garbage man.

Soooo many Halloween decorations.

Checking out another park in Irvine and playing checkers.

Dress rehearsal for family pictures!

Jake and I started a weekly date taking tennis lessons, but the girls ended up being interested, so we signed them up too.

They are super silly during lessons, but it’s really helped with their hand-eye coordination and we’ve had fun going to play at the courts on the weekend with the whole family. Thankfully, Coach Elaine has twins of her own just a year older than our twins, so she’s used to the crazy!

Our yearly cookie decorating date with Maliyah, Allie and Corbin. Jodi makes the best sugar cookies on the planet and her girls are very meticulous about decorating them, whereas Samantha, Amelia and Meredith basically dump as much frosting and sprinkles as possible on their cookies, without even bothering to spread.

I went in to school for a few mornings to help Amelia and Samantha’s classes with their Class Platter that they paint for the school’s auction/fundraiser.

There were no other volunteers to paint the the tree, bird design and names, so I took it home to paint. Let’s just say it was not the best looking plate at the auction since I am no artist… the names looked terrible! But it still got some high bids since every mom wanted a piece of class memorabilia and their child’s thumbprint, despite the mediocre artistry.

I helped Samantha’s class with painting the chocolate chips on their Cookies for Santa plate, which turned out adorable. Thankfully, Mr. Michael is a more gifted artist than I, so all I had to do were the chocolate chips!

 

Samantha was very proud of her planets project.

Eleanor chilling in the playroom.

Amelia taking a break on a walk.

Silly Samantha.

Once it gets close to Halloween, we read “The Chocolate Chip Ghost” story for FHE, complete with stick puppets. The theme is supposed to be about listening to your parents and obeying, but all the girls usually get out of it is asking for more chocolate chips.

Samantha’s block creation.

The girls trying on random costumes at the thrift store while looking for a leather jacket for Jake’s costume.

Normal breakfast shenanigans.

The theme for the school’s Annual Dinner/fundraiser/auction this year was Grease, and it was a blast. The room moms worked our tails off for two months to badger people into donating items and money for the auction, and it all worked out, despite people avoiding us the last week for fear of being accosted to donate. The gift baskets I was in charge of were the “Beauty School Dropout” basket and the “Harvest Basket.”

We decided to take Eleanor with us to the dinner so that my mom, who was in town, would only need to watch the other three… never again! Normally such a happy baby, she screamed and cried on and off for the entire five hours! It was right during her bedtime, but with all the noise, unfamiliar people, and loud music, she was so overtired and just couldn’t sleep. So most of the time, while everyone else was eating, bidding on the silent and live auction, dancing and using the photo booth, I was on the streets of San Juan Capistrano strolling in my poodle skirt with an inconsolable Eleanor, hoping she would fall asleep. Jake took a few turns with her in the Ergo carrier, but to no avail. At least we got some use out of the adorable poodle skirt outfit I got her! Despite her tears, she was the hit of the party for everyone but us.

So many cute baskets up for bid this year.

“Beauty School Drop Out”

A rare moment of silence from Eleanor that night.

There were several bids on the class platters, and wanting to earn more money for the school, I kept bidding up the price, thinking I would definitely be outbid. In the end, I ended up winning both Samantha and Amelia’s class platters, which I hadn’t meant to do! So now we own two very expensive plates that I’ve been trying to get some use of!

Our costume for the night: “Teen Pregnancy.”

Let this be a lesson to you, kids.

Poor screaming Eleanor… other parents commented that she looked like she was singing/screaming into the mic!

Lots of love,

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1st Day of Preschool 2017

The day after Labor Day, the twins started up their second year of preschool!  Although it is bittersweet seeing the twins grow up, I am definitely not one of those weepy moms who needs therapy after the first day of school drop-off (no judgment to those who are, I just really have personal experience with that at all!) I was singing zip-a-dee-doo-dah and relishing my little break of time with just Meredith three days a week!

There was a little bit of angst at drop off time on the twins’ parts, but it was much better than the months of tears at drop-off we endured last year. The twins’ Montessori class includes kids 3-5, so now that they are a year older, they seem to feel more ownership over their class and have really enjoyed helping the new little ones learn the ropes. They both seem to love being leaders and especially Helper of the Day when it’s their turn, although we have to brace ourselves when either one is assigned to be the Helper, because whoever is NOT the Helper that day is usually inconsolably upset.

It’s also my first year being the official Room Mom for Samantha’s class which means I basically have to send out a lot of emails and bug parents with reminders all the time, but I secretly relish being in charge, even if it means I’m the annoying Room Mom! I’m sure the other parents try and steer clear of me when they see me at school for fear I’ll ask them to bring yet another donation to class or sign up for another volunteer opportunity 🙂

Amelia is in Miss Becky’s class again:

Samantha is in Miss Holly and Mr. Michaels’ class again:

So happy we’re back to uniforms! Makes having their girls choose their clothes for the day so much easier.

GIVE ME THE SIGN BACK.

At drop-off and pick-up, Meredith goes crazy running around with the other kids and is pretty irate when we have to leave her sisters at the school.   She’s so tall that people often mistake her for one of the students.

This is the first year Amelia and Samantha have started staying for lunch and nap at school, which has been very convenient for Meredith’s nap schedule, and the girls have loved being able to stay and eat lunch with their friends.

At nap time, the kids rest on their mats, but a few don’t sleep, and Amelia and Samantha so far have been actually napping maybe 10% of the time. I was shocked since they still take regular 2-2.5 hour naps at home (I often have to wake them so their naps don’t interfere with bedtime).

The first few weeks, they complained that their mats weren’t comfortable and that they wanted to bring their pillows, blankies and stuffed animals (I think the black out curtains that make it pitch black in their room at home, as well as the white noise at home, have been too ingrained in their systems).

Now that school has been in session a few weeks, they seem to be getting used to the nap routine at school, but on the days they don’t nap, they have been incredibly cranky for the rest of the afternoon. We put them to bed early at 6:30 on those days, which has its benefits!

After drop-off, Meredith and I usually run errands, walk Bandit, go to the park or attend her music class. She is a lot less shy than the twins ever were and quickly makes friends wherever she goes. At music class, she loves to play the instruments, “sing,” and do all the hand movements. The twins went to the same Music Together program and it took them more than a year to feel confident enough to get off my lap! Meredith, on the other hand, runs around the classroom and says hi to the teacher and other kids like she owns the place.

With baby, then toddler and preschoolers napping, I haven’t been out of the house in the 2:30 p.m. hour in years, so the new school schedule has opened up a whole new world of possibilities for us! I didn’t realize the world keeps spinning without us in those early afternoon hours, when I am usually home with sleeping kids.

On non-school days, by the time everyone wakes up from naps, the girls take forever to get going again (an object that is put in motion, stays in motion), so we normally stay home in the late afternoon, swim in our pool, or play in our own neighborhood. Now on school days, we’ve been out more often than usual in the afternoon. After pickup, we’ve been going out to the park, library, and out to feed the ducks. It feels so weird being out this time in the afternoon!

After a particularly rough week in which mean comments and bad attitudes courtesy of the twins were getting out of control, we instituted the Kindness Jar, in which the girls got to drop a pom pom in a mason jar every time we caught them doing something particularly kind. Once it was filled up, we went out for Golden Spoon after pick-up and rode around the park. It was meant to be a one-time thing to jumpstart them being deliberately more kind, but they were so enthusiastic about it, that we may bring the Kindness Jar back for the occasional refresher.

The twins decided it was okay to let Meredith have some frozen yogurt too even though she didn’t contribute to their jar.

Scootering around the lake.

Meredith loves to read at drop-off.

Have a great day, girls!

I was super excited when Miss Becky texted me a picture of Amelia starting to work on her word boards! Amelia was bursting with pride that day, telling us how she was learning to “read.”

Some school projects so far. I love how Samantha in her “self portrait” drew all three of her sisters. Identity issues?

Some of my projects for school so far have included helping host back to school night and bugging parents to bring donations to our superhero themed class gift basket that will be auctioned off at our fundraiser.

Amelia consistently talks about how silly she and her friends, Mila and Elliana, were that day (coincidentally, all three are usually the non-nappers in her class!).

Samantha’s group of friend seems to vary, but Ella is a constant, with Brooklyn and Kiyomi joining her to play “family” out on the playground.

 

I volunteered about once a month last year in both classes, but now that I’m the Room Mom, I’m pretty much the default volunteer. I came in Samantha’s class to help out with an art project and with the class platter that the kids paint and auction off at the school’s fundraiser. I had to go home and take a nap afterwards… I don’t know how preschool teachers do it, but all those little kids exhaust me! Here’s to a great school year!

Lots of love,

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